Skycastlefish Posted September 20, 2010 Posted September 20, 2010 "There is no fury like a woman scorned" I second that, and I'm a young-en'. All 4 women who I've been serious with would have thrown me under a bus when we broke up. I am now good friends with all of them it just took them a year or so to come around. It must be a chemical difference between men and women. I'm not sure what purpose it serves, but it must be necessary to the human condition in some way. Even some female salamanders are known to punish their mates if they come back to the rock smelling like another women. Pointy tail, biting, all the classic abuse
Cookieman Posted September 21, 2010 Author Posted September 21, 2010 I know guys your right. Right now my judgement is very cloudy and I wake up in the morning by myself still thinking it's a bad dream.
Cookieman Posted December 17, 2010 Author Posted December 17, 2010 OK guys,I haven't been posting for a while now and I found out alot of information about my wife that I didn't expect. She abandaned my son and I last month and bought a house with her boyfriend.I found this out as my son retrieved a text message from her blackberry and forwarded it to me.It seems that she has been cheating on me for a while now and the fireworks was just an exuse. My son wants to live with me now as he is resenting his mom for what she did.I have to apply for social assistance from the government to pay 2 mortgages and support my son.The lawyer knows all this and hopefully the payout to her for equity in the business and house will be minimal. I had to change all the locks as she was coming in the house stealing things when I was at work. I still have all my 3 inch and 6 inch shells stored and can't wait to start my new life doing what I love. Talk to you guys soon!!
Ralph Posted December 17, 2010 Posted December 17, 2010 atleast the end is insight even if it is just on the horizon hope things turn out alright
50AE Posted December 17, 2010 Posted December 17, 2010 Oh my... very sorry to hear about it Cookieman.
Siegmund Posted December 18, 2010 Posted December 18, 2010 Glad you're back online and posting, and hope that the dust will settle for you before too long. Best luck for a fair shake from the courts.
pyrochris732 Posted December 18, 2010 Posted December 18, 2010 dude sorry to hear all this. Dont ever let a woman come between you and your fireworks. I can say that because i am single and not in love. But if my gf ever told me that should would leave me unless i got rid of fireworks, id escort her to the door. I guess thats why i am sitting at home on a friday night, lol. You are free and obviously better off. She sounds like a shitty person if i may be so bold. Time heals and all that crap.. (its really true). Hope you meet another lady soon.
Algenco Posted December 18, 2010 Posted December 18, 2010 Cookie, It's great to hear from you, hang in there, these situations are never pleasant. There is light at the end of the tunnel although it may seem a bit dim at the moment.Her behavior should be very favorable to you when the settlement is finalized. You could quite possibly come out better than you think. I have a friend that was able to prove his Wife had been cheating, he got the house, she got the mortgage!She also had to pay child support and this guy was worth $8 mill ! She got nothing but bills
dagabu Posted December 18, 2010 Posted December 18, 2010 Cookie, I waited a few days before answering because I am not going to celebrate your loss or trash her for bad decisions. I too was married to a woman the stepped out on me and then abandoned her kids. That was 20 years ago this year. Please dont judge me guys, the tears still come when I think of her but I raised the kids by myself, got remarried a few years ago and now those two boys are serving their country with pride in the ARMY (not my choice, I suggested the NAVY). I poured myself into my kids, I grieved hard, forgave the woman and still do not speak badly of her. Be angry, shake your fist to the sky and let the rage out, then be ready to start the healing process. I am so very sorry for your loss. Dave
Cookieman Posted December 18, 2010 Author Posted December 18, 2010 Thanks for all your support guys.The lawyers are still working on the financials and then they will start working on the joint custody agreement.After that, I will have to sell my house as I can't afford it on my income alone and hopefully my son will come live with in an apartment as she will have to pay child support.The holidays make it worse as my sons birthday falls on Boxing day and we both want him that day.I will do the right thing and let him choose who he wants to spend his birthday with, without fighting it out with her.I'm looking forward to this thing ending as quickly as possible.
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